My phone rings. It’s 6:30 a.m. This may not be so difficult for some of you, but for those of you who, like me, are NOT a morning person… you can imagine the drill. Phone rings, and rings, and rings, while I fumble clumsily for what seems an eternity because I can’t locate the handset in my semi-conscious state. Not to mention I want to throw the thing at the wall for the raucous noise it’s making. Upon finally locating the earth-shattering bell that pierces my fog in a most disagreeable way – I groggily answer. On the other end is the most chipper voice of A from six hours into the future… around his lunch time.
I can barely form an intelligible sentence. A is full of life and laughter and interesting tidbits. He sometimes wants to discuss important issues… though I sense sometimes that he wistfully tables anything really important until I’m marginally functioning.
This is our daily routine… for the past 3+ years. We can rarely do the ‘my lunchtime / his early evening’ chat due to frequent scheduling conflicts. This is not to say that we haven’t been able to have a decent conversation in three years… quite the contrary! We do carve out quality time… and quantity (even if in varying states of wakefulness).
Fast forward a few hours…
A’s phone rings. It’s 11:00 p.m. GMT. It’s 5:00 p.m. CST. My workday is finished and I want to tell A all about the day, discuss important issues, laugh or vent and hear about his day. I’m a mile a minute and somewhat animated… A is now the grumpy groggy one.
Thank goodness for weekends!
Can’t wait to share a timezone… :)
It must be really difficult to chat, with the time difference!!
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